Hi my dear friends. So are you wondering who's pregnant...My brother-in-law's
wife is (after 1 year of marriage). Anyway I just got to think what
is the relationship called for brother-in-law's wife....I searched Google, it says
nothing legally...hehe....Some say she can be referred to sister-in-law
although it is not really correct....I will refer her as my sister-in-law.
I received a call from my husband yesterday saying there is a good news and my sister-in-law is pregnant. My mother-in-law informed him. It seems that she was
hesitating to tell the news. Stopping here and there throughout the
conversation. She even told my husband don't feel sad. He was like this is a
good news, nothing to feel sad. She then told that my father-in-law was sad. My
husband was shocked and asked her why that was. This is a good news right? She
told that my father-in-law felt that I would be sad hearing this news. I was so
touched. It is their moment to feel happy, as I know I have disappointed their feeling
twice having 2 miscarriages. I did not hope for it. I always felt bad for my parents and my in-laws as I took away their happiness.
When my husband came back from work, I asked him if I should be calling my
sister-in-law. He said just wait for few weeks. I was OK with it. How I felt
towards her pregnancy? I am happy for her actually. I would have wished I could
give my in-laws the first grandchild but it really doesn't matter. As long my
in-laws are happy, I am happy too. I know that they been waiting very long for a grandchild. I
will give them a grandchild just a little later.
I had so much thinking throughout the day. I was so concern about my father-in-law. I decided to call my mother-in-law just to make sure she knows I am OK.
I called and talked about my sister-in-law's pregnancy. Just a normal
conversation regarding the pregnancy. I was totally myself. I felt better
calling my in-law. At least they know that I am OK with the pregnancy news. I
hope my sister-in-law will have a healthy pregnancy. I hope I will have my healthy
pregnancy soon also. I still have my parents who are waiting for a grandchild. My father is 60 years old and my mother is 59 years. I know they are so worried
that I am struggling to have a healthy pregnancy. I know my husband is also sad
deep down although he does not talk about it. I really hope I can make my
family members happy soon.
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